Conversations with My Wife #46: Different Tastes in Men

Cassie: So-and-So’s a pretty weird looking dude.

Me: Really?

Cassie: Yeah.

Me: I was just getting ready to say I thought he was a pretty good looking guy.

Cassie: Well, I guess we just have different tastes in men.


Read in 2011

Here are the books I read in 2011. I’ve got pictures of the ones I highly recommend. 

Non-Fiction

After You Believe: NT Wright

Resonate: Present Visual Stories that Transform AudiencesThe Theology of Paul the Apostle

The Theology of Paul the Apostle: James Dunn

Scandalous: DA Carson

 

A Peculiar People: Rodney Clapp

The Anti-Christ: Friedrich Nietzsche

Made to Stick: Chip and Dan Heath

Resonate: Nancy Duarte

Word Biblical Commentary on Jonah: Douglas Stuart

Liberating Jonah: Miguel De LaTorre

Brazos Theological Commentary on Jonah: Phillip Cary

Product Details

Raised with Christ: Adrian Warnock

Dissident Discipleship: David Augsburger

Practice Resurrection: Eugene PetersonProduct Details

Velvet Elvis: Rob Bell

Love Wins: Rob Bell

Bowling Alone: Robert Putnam

Better Together: Robert Putnam

Epic of Eden: Sandra RichterThe Epic of Eden: A Christian Entry into the Old Testament

The Great Divorce: CS LewisThe Great Divorce

Girl Meets God: Laura Winner

Radical: David Platt

UnChristian: David Kinnaman

Communicating for Change: Andy Stanley

The Life You Always Wanted: John Ortberg

Leading from the Second Chair: Mike Bonem and Roger Patterson

Unlearning Church: Mike Slaughter

The Challenge of Easter: NT Wright

Creating Community: Andy Stanley

For Men Only: Shaunti Feldhahn

Fiction:

Dracula: Bram Stoker

Against All Things Ending: Stephen DonaldsonAgainst All Things Ending: The Last Chronicles of Thomas Covenant

The End of Mr. Y: Scarlett Thomas

The Stand: Stephen King

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone: JK Rowling

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets: JK Rowling

Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban: JK Rowling

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire: JK Rowling


Advent Waiting or a Hindu Manger Scene?

Snapped this at Hobby Lobby today. Can’t figure out if the lack of baby Jesus is intentional for Advent, or if this is a Hindu manger scene. 


QoD: Enlarged with Christ

Waiting does not diminish us, any more than waiting diminishes a pregnant mother. We are enlarged in the waiting. We, of course, don’t see what is enlarging us. But the longer we wait, the larger we become, and the more joyful our expectancy. Eugene Peterson


Why I Love Teaching…

I just received this message from one of my Wednseday night crew. THIS is why I love teaching…

“[My husband] and I just had one of the deepest, well thought out conversations I think we may have ever had in our entire relationship about ….JONAH and the vine. And I have you and the Wed nght bible study to thank for that.”

And that, my friends, is why we do what we do!


Small Groups: Self-Serving or Self-Giving

A growing small group grows because it’s focused on someone or something other than itself. Even within the group, the individuals are not focused on their own needs being met, but on the needs of others. It grows because it understands that its purpose is not to become ingrown and self-infatuated, but lies in giving itself away, laying its life down for the sake of others.

 

Self-focused small groups, filled with self-focused people, die slow, painful deaths. Because self-focus is not the point of a small group.

 

If people attend small groups because they have a need to be part of something “bigger than themselves,” then a small group that only focuses primarily on itself fails to provide for that need, and therefore fails to live up to the purpose of its existence. “People want to know if there is something more – something bigger, something transcendent – and they want to connect to that. When we try to make groups all about our needs, our community, our relationships, they implode.” (Miller and Peppers, Finding the Flow. 25)

 

This does not mean long-standing or large small groups need to split apart – for the issue is not about time or size. This merely means that if our small groups have become so comfortable and ingrown that an outsider wouldn’t feel welcomed into the “clique”, then we are not fulfilling our purpose.

 

The purpose of a small group is growth – not merely growth in numbers, but growth in relationships with God. And if God is self-giving, not self-centered, then growth in God is going to happen through the giving of ourselves. As we give ourselves away to others, they give themselves away to us. In this self-giving, all parties are fed and encouraged. There’s nothing wrong with being fed. But you need to feed others as much as they feed you; you need to give yourself away to others as much as they give themselves away to you. And, really, you should find ways to give yourself away to people that can’t give of themselves back to you.

 

Here are some signs your small group should be pruned for more growth:

 

  1. Your group cannot invite new people because it would mess up the group dynamics.
  2. Your group spends a lot of time and effort keeping things they way they are instead of looking for ways to grow spiritually and serve others.  
  3. Intimacy and vulnerability within the group are difficult, if not impossible, because the group is too focused on self-preservation.
  4. Service to others has become rare…if not undesirable.
  5. Service to others has become difficult to schedule due to the size of the group.

 


QoD: Advent, Anxiety, and Faith

‎”Faith does not deny the reason for anxiety but rejects the rule of anxiety.”

Richard John Neuhaus, God with Us. 32.


QoD: Advent, War, and Peace

We neither hold ourselves aloof form the anguish of a conflicted world nor delude ourselves that the resolution of all conflicts is within o
ur power. In the child of Bethlehem, in the powerlessness of a baby, God entered into our conflicts. The powers of darkness and death raged against his intrusion and did their worst, beginning with murderous King Herod, who killed the babies of Bethlehem, and ending with a cruel death on a cross.
The dark and deadly powers still rage because they know they have been defeated by the Prince of Peace – incarnate, crucified, and crowned in glory. By faith in him and the victory that he won, we already live in the Peaceable Kingdom that is to be. Because it has already happened, it will really happen.
Richard John Neuhaus, God with Us. 26.

Annoying Jet


A Radical Review: What was Missing: The Final Post

I had two other posts I wanted to include, but I realized that they were really just rants against a particular theological point of view. I figured my time was better spent doing something constructive. So this is the final post in my review of David Platt’s Radical. I hope you have enjoyed the series. You can read them all right here (though you should note they are in reverse order). 

 

What Was Missing

A more robust Trinitarian theology would’ve helped strengthen every single point David Platt made and would’ve kept him from a number of the errors into which he ventures.

Why do Evangelical pastors and theologians assume the Trinity has nothing to contribute to the conversations the church is having about politics, justice, evangelism, and social ethics?

I know this may seem like an abstract question about an abstract doctrine that is better left to the dusty bookshelves of Moltmann, Barth, and Augustine. We figure it’s something those old timers in church history argued about, but who cares about it now? We moderns have more important things to talk about like God’s hatred for sinners and His love for his own self-glorification

 

But the Trinity? We assume, to our own detrmiment, that it’s a doctrine merely for scholastic reflection, but doesn’t really touch down in everyday life.

I want to propose, instead that the Trinity is a necessary prerequisite to understanding what Christians are to do in the contemporary culture and Platt has missed a great opportunity to make his argument much stronger. I want to suggest that the Trinity matters to what we have to say about caring for the poor. I want to argue that we have shot ourselves in the foot in the Abortion debate because we’ve missed the power of the doctrine of God’s Tri-unity to help shape, engage, and live out our beliefs.

And more specifically, I want to argue that the persons of the Trinity provide an Evangelical model for social interaction, and David Platt has walked right past his best theological weapon, not even giving a second thought to it.

The basic rundown is this:The three persons of the Trinity, though distinct from one another, are united in a loving union. This union of perfect love created the world out of an overflow of love – perfect love desires nothing more than to give itself away. When creation fell into sin under the guidance of Adam and Eve, God took His perfect love a step further. Though they did not need to, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit gave themselves up for their enemies. The Son, the most physical example of this, gave up His glory to become a human. He humbled himself even to the point of death, even death on a cross – the most humiliating death in world history. He later, by the power of the Spirit, resurrected from the dead in defeat of death and the forces of evil and chaos in the world. This, in short, is called the gospel and it is from first to last about the Trinity.  It was planned by the Father before the creation of the world, enacted by the Son, and is continued in the church by the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit.

Now, this is a quick rundown of a complex doctrine. But here’s what we have:

  • God’s central character attribute is love. This love was core to his character prior to the creation of the world. Indeed, it was the reason for creation.
  • That love was self-less (not self-centered). Each member of the Trinity loved the other members with self-giving love. That self-giving love extended to the creation – and then later to fallen creation. David Platt could argue that in God’s unity the persons loving each other mean that God loves himself. Okay, that’s fine. But the Trinitarian description of such a love moves it into the self-less category, not the selfish category.
  • The Triune God’s self-giving love is most clearly exhibited in Jesus. He didn’t just stand aloof to our brokenness and say, “Don’t worry, I love you.” No – he entered into our history, our brokenness and died under it’s weight! The incarnation of Jesus is  the ultimate manifestation of Triune, self-giving love. And that is why it is at the core of our “good news.”

Therefore: If we are to be called the people of the Triune God…

1) We are to be people known for our self-giving love. Our political involvement is not about power and preservation of our comfortable way of life. Our political involvement must be self-giving, humble, and willing to die for those we are in disagreement with. Disagreement is inevitable. But the way we disagree is an indication of whether we are emulating the Triune God or the ways of the world. This is a radical idea. 

2) We are to be people who are willing to love our enemies and others considered ‘unlovable.’ Jesus told us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. Much of our contemporary rhetoric in the political world (I’m thinking here of “Obamanation”) is filled with hatred and vitriol and has no redeemable quality to it. We may need to criticize certain political stances, but demonizing people is not the way of the God who exhibits love to the entire world by being crucified by the world! This is a radical idea. 

3) The love of the Triune God is not abstract. It is concrete in its expression – we must enter into someone’s life in order to let them know that they are loved. Indeed, we must be willing to die for them and their brokenness. Paul tells us, in his poetic description of love in I Cor. 13, that it does not matter if we have all knowledge (read: truth) if we do not have love! And that love gets it’s hands dirty. That love doesn’t just stand back and proclaim truth – it necessarily embodies the truth! Like Jesus, that kind of love is truth “in the flesh.” This is a radical idea. 

The Trinity matters to truly radical living. It is only in modeling our ministries after Triune, self-giving love that we can ever truly live radical lives. 

This doctrine isn’t for dusty books and obscure academic journals. It’s for the everyday life of people struggling to bring God’s kingdom to earth. It’s for people who are looking for serious alternatives to American Dream living, for people trying to navigate the moral morass that is the the suburbs. The Trinity provides an alternative model for those of us looking to engage this world with the gospel, not just make it endurable until we can get to heaven.

Platt wanted to call us to mission. The Father sent the Son to die and rise and the Spirit to empower and indwell; is there a better understanding of mission than that?

Platt wanted to call us to social justice. Is there a better example of seeking justice on a systemic level than Jesus, who was sent from the just and good Father to challenge (political and religious) systems of oppression and injustice that marginalized and dehumanized the first century poor?

Platt wanted us to preach the gospel. Is there a better place to begin sharing the gospel than with the Father who loved the Son so much that their love poured out onto a broken creation when Jesus took on human flesh? The incarnation wasn’t just something the Father and Jesus decided to do one day. It is the natural overflow of their mutual love for one another! The gospel begins there and only there.

All of this was missing from Platt’s book. And all of his good points (and some of his not-good points) could’ve been made stronger by building on this beautiful, mysterious, and, yes, accessible doctrine.

Review complete. Mischief managed.

 

 


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